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When Pain Stays Silent: Addressing Self-Harm in Men
Self-harm is not just a teenage issue or something that only affects women! My experience working with men supports research showing that th
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Why Men Need to Talk About the Trauma of Sexual Abuse

Talking about the trauma of sexual abuse and seeking therapy are not signs of weakness; they are acts of profound courage.
Stephen
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Stop Thinking; Start Feeling
Research on practices like mindfulness, meditation, and breathwork shows how tuning into physical sensations can regulate the nervous system
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Sensing Danger: Understanding the Negativity Bias and the Autonomic Nervous System
Have you ever been somewhere familiar, with people you trust, yet felt a sudden sense of danger?
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Boarding School: Pain, Joy or a Mix of Both? Let’s Talk About It.
Boarding school often evokes a wide range of emotions and memories, and for many, those memories can be incredibly complex.
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Bullying in the Workplace
Bullying ruins lives. It’s that simple. Nearly a quarter of UK employees report experiencing bullying at work.
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The Way We Breathe: How & Why
The way we breathe directly affects how we feel - both physically and emotionally. It directly influences our nervous system...
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Reclaiming Healthy Masculinity
The Power of Tribe and Connection November is the month of Men's Heath Awareness and a time when many allow facial hair to grow in order...
Stephen
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Walking the Talk
Walk and talk therapy combines the benefits of physical activity with the therapeutic process
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Overdose & Trauma
The Hidden Crisis You Need to Know About 31st August - International Overdose Awareness Day Introduction In the shadow of the global...
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Why Men Become Suicidal - Part 4: Insights from Baumeister’s Psychological Pain Theory
Baumeister’s Psychological Pain theory helps me understand the deep emotional pain that can lead someone to see suicide as their only escape
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Understanding How Counselling Can Help You Heal from Trauma
If you're reading this, you might be someone who has experienced trauma and is considering counselling—or maybe you're just curious about...
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The impact of trauma on teenagers
Understanding the impact of trauma on teenagers is vital to help them navigate feelings, so trauma doesn't become stuck in their bodies.
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Understanding Male Trauma
A Guide for Everyone Trauma doesn't discriminate. It quietly seeps into the lives of people regardless of their gender, age, or...
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How can I understand and cope with flashbacks?
I see flashbacks as a sort of sudden, involuntary time travel! They whisk you away from the present moment and plunge you back into a...
Stephen
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Understanding Polyvagal theory - Understanding Trauma
First written about in the 1990s by Dr. Stephen Porges, Polyvagal Theory is all about understanding how our nervous system - especially...
Stephen
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Managing the Stress Response from Historic Trauma
Recent events in my life have made me stop and think about how the past has affected the way I respond to stress and how important it is...
Stephen
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Why men need to talk about the trauma of sexual abuse…
...and how therapy can help overcome the shame. Sexual abuse is a deeply traumatic experience that leaves scars not just on the body but...
Stephen
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A Person-Centred Approach to Trauma
Imagine walking into a space where you're seen not as a collection of symptoms or problems to be fixed, but as a person with a story,...
Stephen
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Understanding Psychosis
Experiencing a psychotic episode can be like finding yourself in the middle of a stormy sea without a compass.
Stephen
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